How can I make friends and get involved in my community?
Having and making friends is important but it can be difficult for some people. You might get nervous about meeting new people or worry what people might think about you. This is very common. Some people have lots of friends and others just have one or two. Some people also prefer to spend time on their own, and that is fine too.
If you would like to meet up with others, there are lots of clubs and activities in the local area that you can get involved in. We've listed some here, but you can also take a look at our events and activities section.
Essex Fire Cadets is a nationally recognised 3 year programme run in Southend for 14 to 17 year olds. It runs one evening a week for 40 weeks. You can get involved and learn about hose running, breathing apparatus, search and rescue and much more. You will also have the opportunity to work towards your Bronze, Silver and Gold Duke of Edinburgh award.
No charge
The Southend Youth Support Service run a range of inclusive games and social nights for children and young people of different ages. Find out more here.
Under £10
Southend Mencap 16+ Social Club is a sports and social club for young people aged 16 to 25 with learning disabilities. The club runs every Monday between 6 and 9pm at the St John Fisher Church. It costs £6 per session.
Over £10
Total Palace are youth theatre groups for young people who may identify as neurodiverse or have additional needs.
Various costs
- Southend Deaf Pub is a social group for older young people and adults who are hearing impaired or deaf.
- Friends and Places Together is for those aged 14 years and over. You can get together with friends and meet new people while playing football, swimming, bowling or Lazertag, and much more!
- Project 49 is an award-winning service for adults aged 18 plus with learning disabilities. They offer a whole range of activities and you can get involved in art projects, cookery, media groups, cycling and much more!